Will He not give anything?

“He who did not spare his own Son, but gave him up for us all—how will he not also, along with him, graciously give us all things?” Romans 8:32 NIV

I read this quote this morning in an advent devotional I am going through by Ann Voskamp “The Greatest Gift.” This quote stopped me dead in my tracks and forced me to ask myself that question… God gave His only Son for me… would He not give me anything and everything else that I need?

It seems easy for me to accept and believe the fact that Jesus died for me. That God gave His one and only Son for me. But why is it so hard for me to accept and believe that He will give me peace when I am in a storm, direction when I feel lost, provision when the numbers don’t add up, comfort in the midst of discouragement and disappointment? Anything and everything I need, He will not withhold from me…or you.

I don’t know if this Christmas season maybe you are in a storm, or you are sad, discourage, lonely or maybe you are like me and just feel like your heart has harden a little this past year from hurt or disappointment. Maybe you, like me have been crying out to God to return to you the joy of your salvation. To lift the burdens that seems so heavy. To heal the places that hurt so bad. To make sense of the disappointment that you don’t understand…Can I encourage you to remember Jesus. Even now.. even in the midst of all of that you may be walking through?

Remember that Jesus was God’s only Son that He gave to you and me because of His great love for us. He already gave us the greatest and most incredible gift there is to give. Trust Him. Rest in Him this season and know that there isn’t anything that you need that He will not provide for you. Not because of anything that we have done to deserve it, but because of who He is that gives it.


Let us not forget…

I don’t know if you are feeling it already or not, but I sure am… so is my wallet😜 The hustle of it all. Thanksgiving has come and gone and Christmas is soon to do the same. But I want this year to be different…

Don’t get me wrong I LOVE all the presents, the shopping, the food, the COOKIES, the decorations, I just love it all. But I find myself sometimes going through these motions and traditions so quickly and sometimes even on autopilot. Have you ever felt that way? Christmas Eve.. we go here. Christmas day … we do this, go here, eat here and then eat again there…

Sometimes our traditions, to-do lists, and agendas can take the place of what Christmas is all about. Jesus.

Not just the birth of Jesus but the entire reason Jesus even came. At Christmas we celebrate the birth of Jesus our Savior. We don’t rejoice over just a baby that was born in a manger, we rejoice over a Savior who came to rescue us because we need a Savior.

This Christmas I want to reflect on that. Jesus my Savior, our Savior. I want to remember the story in Genesis and the Fall of man. I want to remember God searching in the garden calling out “Where are you?” as if He didn’t already know the answer. Grace. I want to remember His grace. I want to remind myself of all the times He has called out to me when I have wandered away “Daughter, where are you?” My Savior, My Father, calling out to draw me back… because of Grace… because of Love.

I want to look at that manger that I put under my tree and see my Savior, not just another decoration I set out. I want to leave this season and enter into a new decade with a greater awe of who He is and a stronger wonder to know Him more. I want the same for you… will you join me?

Join me in a journey through this season of choosing to slow down, to pause, to reflect, to seek, to stand in awe, to draw close, to dig in… to celebrate not only the birth of Jesus, but the birth of our Savior Jesus Christ who came to this earth in the form of a baby to live a sinless, selfless life and to die on a cross for my sins… for your sins. To die so that we can live. So that we can have the hope of eternity and what is to come.

My prayer for us is that we leave this Christmas changed. That we leave with a greater understanding of what Love is and a greater willingness to share that love each and everyday. So this Christmas, let us truly not forget the Reason for the season.

Merry Christmas Friends 🎄Ashley

If you read this today and you do not know Jesus as your Savior I would love the opportunity to talk and pray with you if you do not have a church home or Christian friend to talk to. You can email me at ashley@ashleylmcclain.com or we can connect on Facebook. I would be honored and excited to talk to you. 💜

Here is a link to an advent devotional I am reading this year and LOVE so far: The Greatest Gift: Unwrapping the Full Love Story of Christmas

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That’s Not Your Story

Life is hard sometimes isn’t it? Sometimes life can be full of disappointments. Sometimes it can be full of hurt. Sometimes it can be full of why’s or why not’s. Sometimes I even feel as if God has just turned away and forgotten about me. Have you ever felt that way?

As I laid awake in bed last night I just couldn’t hold in the tears and the hurt any longer. I am a bottler upper (is that a thing??) I like to hold all of my feelings in until they explode. Super healthy I know.. I am working on it.

The questions. The dreams that are gone. The plans I thought would happen and didn’t or haven’t yet. The story of what I thought my life would be. The pain that comes with watching others live out that story that I so badly want to be my own… The disappoints, the feelings of failure and worthlessness… sometimes they all just come out and explode. But in the midst of these moments the God that felt so far away is ever so near.

In His kindness and mercy He chose to speak louder than my thoughts and feelings. In the midst of my questions and doubts His love was greater and steady. In the midst of my tears He chose to speak words of comfort, because that is who He is. Here is what I heard Him speak so clearly to my heart…

That is not your story…I am still writing your story and I am not finished with it yet.

Peace. Peace that is greater than all understanding. Because in my limited understanding there was still hurt, but when He spoke those words to my heart the Peace was greater.

I don’t know what you may be going through today, or this season of your life. Whether you are on a mountain top or down in the valley, know that your story isn’t finished yet. Know that His plans are greater than any that we can think of for ourselves. Know that everyday is a new page to your story. Some pages are harder than others… some chapters are longer than others, but the Author of the story is the same on the mountain as He is in the valley. Let His peace be louder than your understanding.

Here are some verses that bring comfort to my heart and season and I pray they do the same for you as well:

Create in me a pure heart, O God, and renew a steadfast spirit within me. Do not cast me from your presence or take your Holy Spirit away from me. Restore to me the JOY of your salvation and grant me a willing spirit to sustain me. – Psalm 51:10-12 NIV

The righteous cry out, and the Lord hears them; He delivers them from all their troubles. The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit. Psalm 34:17-18 NIV

The Lord is my shepherd, I lack nothing. He makes me lie down in green pastures, he leads me beside quiet waters, he refreshes my soul.
He guides me along the right paths for his name’s sake.
Even though I walk through the darkest valley,
I will fear no evil, for you are with me;
your rod and your staff, they comfort me. You prepare a table before me
in the presence of my enemies.
You anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows.
Surely your goodness and love will follow me all the days of my life,
and I will dwell in the house of the Lord forever.
Psalm 23 NIV

For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.”Jeremiah 29:11 NIV

I call on you, my God, for you will answer me; turn your ear to me and hear my prayer.Psalm 17:6 NIV

God can do anything, you know—far more than you could ever imagine or guess or request in your wildest dreams! He does it not by pushing us around but by working within us, his Spirit deeply and gently within us.Ephesians 2:20 MSG

Finding Your Purpose

What a heavy load to carry right? Find your purpose. Find the one thing that you were created to do. Figure out what God made you for… WHAT IF I DON’T KNOW? Purpose and finding my purpose really got me off track for a long time. My intentions were good. I wanted to know exactly what it was that God was calling me to do so I ran and chased anything and everything I thought it could possibly be. I have to work in ministry. I have to be a worship leader. I have to work at a huge company and climb the ladder there… There was one thing in common about all of those adventures I ran on… “I.” I never stopped long enough to ask the Lord if this was the direction He wanted me to go in. I just knew in my heart that if I didn’t have something great to say to people when they asked “So what are you doing these days?” or something amazing to post on Social Media, that it wasn’t enough. I wasn’t doing enough. I wasn’t enough.

Over the last few years, I have walked around a big mountain. A big mountain of constant change and transition. Over and over and over again. Only to land back in the place where I started wishing that I would have never left. But in the circling of that same mountain, the Lord was faithful to teach me and show me so much about purpose and my purpose.

Our purpose is not about the place, it’s about the people.

It doesn’t matter where you find yourself right now. Our purpose in life as believers is to point people to Jesus. Whether you are a server or CEO of a company.

Our purpose is not our title.

It doesn’t matter what the little line under your name on your business card says… or even if you have a business card. It’s still about people.

Our purpose is not about being known by others

I am not going to lie. This was a hard one for me. I grew up in the spotlight and on the stage. Whether that was cheerleading, dancing or singing, I was always performing to get the approval of others or to win the prize I was competing for. My greatest passions are to write and lead worship and sometimes it’s hard to do that when you feel invisible and like those doors just won’t fully open for you. Like you get a taste of it and it seems like the Lord is opening that door… but then you wake up and it’s Monday again and back to the same routine…What if we could learn to not dread another Monday?

That may seem impossible to some of you and trust me I have lived many years dreading Mondays. But what if I told you and really believed it that you didn’t have to live that way? That you don’t have to wake up to your weekday alarm and dread the day ahead. That your entire goal in life is not to just get to the weekend. That the only way you are going to be happy is when you reach that goal, or get that job, or get married, or have kids or your dream comes true… whatever it is for you.

You don’t have to dread your life. When we can fully understand that our purpose in life does not depend on our place of work, our job title, or being known by others there is a supernatural peace and freedom there. When we can wake up and be grateful for where the Lord has us right now and ask Him to use us right where He has us today there is peace and freedom there. When we can make ourselves available to the Lord and be obedient and willing when He asks us to do something there is an amazing sense of purpose there. When we can fully understand that purpose is always about people and pointing them to Jesus there is true fulfillment there.

So as you start your week. As you are waking up on this Monday, I challenge you to thank God for where He has you and ask Him to use you right where you are today. Ask Him to open your eyes and ears to those around you that are searching for something… something you have and can give. Be available, Be willing and Be obedient. Step out in faith with the Lord and just watch what He will do.
I hope you have the best Monday ever.💜Ashley

Peace in the Process

Today I was excited to share my thoughts on Peace in the Process on Arise Daily’s Website. This is a wonderful and encouraging site with devotionals posted daily!
You can read my devotional Peace in the Process here.
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From Bitterness to Beauty

I saw a quote from my pastor going around social media after this weekends message. This is a quote I am all to familiar with.

God doesn’t always change our circumstances. He sometimes changes us. -Pastor Phil Wilson (The Bridge Fellowship)

Have you ever prayed for something with such confidence that you just knew God would do it… that it was just a matter of time before He came through and answered your prayer? I have. I can remember waking up morning after morning praying the same thing over and over again for months. My prayer was simple “God change his heart to go, or give me peace to stay.” (I am not going to go into the details of what this prayer was regarding but I wanted you to get the idea of how simple it was, but also, it was NOT regarding our marriage just to nip that in the bud right away 🤣 we’re good… I mean have you seen that hot hubs of mine! Moving on…) I was fully confident that the Lord was going to change his heart and I waited and waited with full anticipation for Him to do so… but He didn’t, instead He changed mine. Ouch right?

Totally unexpected but completely amazed by God’s grace and mercy to do that for me. The Lord knew if we would have run away from the situation I would have never experienced the process of walking through a journey of bitterness to beauty and freedom that ONLY the Lord could have done. Trust me. I was determined and extremely stubborn in this situation to NOT change my mind.

There is no way to even begin to explain the beauty that is on the other side of bitterness if we are just willing to walk through the process with the Lord.

He is so kind to not let us stay there, because He has so much more for us. I will be the first to raise my hand and say that this is not easy, but I will also be the first to raise both of my hands and say “Thank you Jesus for not letting me stay in camp bitterness. Thank you Jesus for loving me so much that you didn’t answer my prayer the way that I thought and wanted you to. Thank you Jesus for wanting so much more for me than I could ever have imagined for myself. Thank you for being so good.”

I don’t know where you may find yourself today. But I do know if you find yourself in camp bitterness where I was living I can’t encourage you enough to give that to the Lord. I can’t encourage you enough to let Him change your heart, to walk through that process with Him. To let Him free your heart and show the unspeakable beauty, freedom and joy that is waiting for you. He wants so much more for you. Sometimes we just have to be willing to let Him change us, as hard and as humbling as that may be, it is so very worth it.

I am praying for you today. If you are walking through a season where you find yourself stuck in hurt, bitterness or something from the past, know that you are in my prayers right now as you read this. I would be honored to pray for you if you want to send me a message on my Facebook Page or email me at ashley@ashleylmcclain.com
💜 Ashley

Sadness & Joy

Those two words normally don’t make to much sense together right? But, in our Christian faith I have been learning that they actually can co-exist at the exact same time and when they do it is such a beautiful picture of Jesus in our lives.

This morning I woke up to some news that in the moment made me so sad. I sat there for a minute, I tried to go back to sleep but I just could make my mind stop wandering and questioning… ever been there? So I decided that instead of waking up Bobby and Todd (Todd is the dog….. 😁) I would get out of bed and spend some time with Jesus and in His Word.

There is something about His Word and intentionally seeking after His presence that immediately overflowed Joy into my heart. In the midst of my sadness there was great joy. In the midst of my sadness my heart just wanted to read the Psalms and praise Him just like David did… no matter his circumstance. In the midst of my sadness, His Joy is greater.

Does that mean that I am just fine and no longer sad? No. I am still a human… and a woman… so there’s that. We love us some emotions! What it does mean is that I can be sad but I can also have Joy, at the exact same time. Joy does not equal happiness. We are taught at such a young age that the opposite of happy is sad. We then somewhere along our journey begin to think that Joy and Happiness are the same. They are not. Happiness is based on our feelings, emotions and circumstances. Joy comes from knowing Jesus Christ as our Lord. There is not a circumstance that can change that.

If today maybe you find yourself feeling sad, stressed, anxious, lonely… you fill in the blank, I encourage you to take a moment and sit in His presence. Open the word, read a Psalm. Being praising God for who is. I promise you that His Joy will overflow your heart. His Joy will help you stand back up and face your day in the midst of your circumstances or feelings. He is good. He is good. He is always good. If you have no other words just repeat those over and over again over your situation. He has so much more in store for us than we can imagine. We just need to shift our focus from our feelings and circumstances and learn how to live in His joy & peace that He has given us! It’s already there and freely available to you right now! You can choose today to walk out the rest of your day being sad (or whatever feeling you put in the blank above) or you can choose today to walk in His peace and joy in the midst of whatever it is you are going through. Today I chose to walk in His peace and joy and trust that He is good. Because He is.

Here are some verses that encouraged me this morning: ” I know the Lord is always with me. I will not be shaken, for He is right beside me.” ~ Psalm 16:8 NLT
” We can make our own plans, but the Lord gives the right answer. ” ~ Proverbs 16: 1 NLT
” Commit your actions to the Lord, and your plans will succeed. ” ~ Proverbs 16:3 NLT
“Who stood up for me against the wicked? Who took my side against evil workers? If God hadn’t been there for me, I never would have made it. The minute I said, “I’m slipping, I’m falling,” your love, God, took hold and held me fast. When I was upset and beside myself, you calmed me down and cheered me up. ” ~ Psalm 94:19 MSG

In the multitude of my thoughts within me thy comforts delight my soul. ~ Psalm 94:19 KJV

I would love to pray for you if you have a need. You can email me at ashley@ashleymcclain.org or message me on my Facebook page.
Praying that you can choose to walk today in His Joy and Peace!

💜 Ashley